I can’t pretend the bride didn’t tell me this

DEAR HARRIETTE: My sister and I were having a casual girl talk the other day when it took an unexpected turn.

Harriet Cole

She told me about some awful things that have transpired in her relationship with a man she’s been dating for years and to whom she recently got engaged. She confided in me about times that he has cheated on her and has been verbally abusive toward her.

She was very emotional at the time and made me promise not to repeat the things she told me.

Despite that conversation, my sister still plans on marrying her fiance.

I can’t act like she didn’t tell me the things that she told me. I completely detest the idea of ​​the two of them getting married now.

I want to stop her from making the biggest mistake of her life. How do I help her understand that she’s making a mistake without betraying her trust and making her regret telling me?

– Don’t Marry Him

DEAR DON’T MARRY HIM: Your sister is going to make whatever decision she wants, despite confiding about challenges in her relationship.

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